If you haven’t read the previous chapters/pages, please do that now, so you fully understand the supporting theories for the instructions on this page and the remaining pages.
STEPS TO FINDING MEMORIES AND HEALING ISSUES
- Ask God to set lose and remove pride and any deceptive spirits that would keep you from humbling yourself and hearing from God. As you read over each of the following prayer focuses on the following pages, ask the Holy Spirit to reveal the truth about what is in your heart and soul, then list the issue(s), past or present that the Holy Spirit reveals to be healed or transformed. Also, list other people’s problems that have affected you that are related to the issue to be healed, or any related generational sins, curses, or dysfunctions (any DNA markers will need to be loosed).
- Recall the earliest or strongest memory of a time when you felt the same emotion(s) for each of the negative behaviors in the prayer focus. This does not have to be a memory of a similar situation or event; it only has to contain the same feelings. It may be a memory of a general time period or situation in your life instead of one specific incident or actual event. Then identify what is important about the time period or ongoing situation. List all the beliefs and any new feelings associated with that memory (HCM, p. 32).
- After you have prayed the prescribed prayer below, then think about the issue again, and rate your discomfort from 0-10. If there isn’t an improvement, then ask the Holy Spirit to show you other facets of the memory that also need to be healed. Wait quietly for a thought, feeling, or vision.
As you pray the prescribed prayer model below for each issue, breath deeply to remain focused on the transformation of the Holy Spirit. This prayer is not a formula but a guide.
If the issue you are dealing with is an offense from another person’s sin or weakness then pray from your heart: Dear Lord, I forgive _(person’s name)_ for _(offense/hurt)_ and loose/put off this offense and the power it has over me in Jesus’ name. Forgive me for _(sinful response to offense/hurt)_ and remove all guilt, in Jesus’ name.
Dear Lord, I ask that all unknown/unconscious associated strongholds, unhealthy beliefs, wrong thinking, oppressive/demonic spirit attachments, destructive cellular memories, and all resulting physical issues related to __[issue(s) being worked on] __ be found, opened, and I put off/lose specifically [_name specific revealed strongholds, destructive memories, unhealthy beliefs, and wrong thinking_]. Fill me with Your love, life, and light. I put on/bind to my mind and heart the following truths: (listed in associated fruit characteristics prayer focuses on the following pages.)
EXAMPLE PRAYER: Dear Lord, I forgive my mother for being frustrated, over-reactive, and not being patient and kind when I needed her to be. I forgive her parents for being over-reactive to my mother and not modeling love through patience and kindness. I confess and forgive myself for being frustrated and over-reacting in the same way to my husband and children and not loving them by being patient and kind. Forgive me for reacting in anger toward my mother, sisters, husband, and children, and then in self-pity and despair toward myself. Remove all the guilt, in Jesus’ name. I ask that all known and unknown associated strongholds, unhealthy beliefs, wrong thinking, demonic spirit attachments, destructive cellular memories, and all resulting physical issues related to my mother’s over reactive nature and my over reactive nature and self-pity be found, opened, and put off/loosed. I lose and remove the resentment and disappointment from my heart and mind of all the times my mother did not respond to me with love, and I did not respond to my husband and children with love. Lose and remove the oppressive energy/spirits attached to these memories, in Jesus’ name. Fill me with Your love, life, and light. I put on/bind to my mind and heart the truth that I do not have to be over-reactive as my mother was and I can love her, my sisters, husband, and children by being patient and kind as God is patient and kind to me, in Jesus’ name. Amen (Prayed truth statements in the Love, Patience, and Kindness prayer focuses.)
I can testify, along with others, that my life has been completely transformed by these steps to finding bad memories and healing issues outlined above. I continue to see tremendous transformations as I pray the prescribed prayer model and work through the issues listed in the nine core prayer focuses of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. I now look in the mirror and see a happy, emotionally healthy, content woman, not a hurting, angry, anxious little girl. When you look in the mirror what do you see?
I encourage you to repeat the nine core prayer focuses often, even if you just bind the truths and positive behaviors to your heart to reinforce your transformation. Consider making it a part of your meditation/prayer time. Dr. Caroline Leaf believes that it takes repeated work for permanent change to take effect, especially in the “non-conscious mind.” These prayer focuses are just a tool. As you read your Bible, you may see other areas in which your thinking and beliefs may not line up with the truth, verbally and by faith (knowing it is the Holy Spirit doing the work in you), in Jesus’ name set lose/put-off the wrong belief or thinking, then bind/put on the truth. Remember, that you will experience physical detox symptoms when you detox negative emotions and destructive memories, this is normal.