Refer to 5–Finding Bad Memories and Healing Issues to identify trauma memories related to your goodness issues listed below.
Confess and loose/put off the following statements you identify with, along with all associated memories, unhealthy beliefs, and negative oppressive energies. It is helpful to keep a journal so you can see how you have been healed.
Shame about things done or not done
Guilt: a feeling of responsibility or remorse for some offense, crime, wrong, etc., whether real or imagined.
Fear of punishment: penalty imposed on an offender
Destructiveness: tearing down; criticism
Feeling inadequate: not sufficient; not equal to what is required
Devalue: to make someone not feel valued or have worth
Selfishness: devoted to or caring only for oneself; concerned primarily with one’s own interests, benefits, welfare, etc., regardless of others
Loose UNHEALTHY BELIEFS AND LIES—bind in opposite
I am bad. (Bind in – I have the goodness of Christ in me.)
I am not good enough.
I am unforgivable. (Bind in – Christ forgives me.)
I am so far from goodness that I can’t have it or express it. I am pathetic.
It is useless trying to attain this condition. I have tried everything but I am so sinful and flawed.
I lost my connection to God and good by being a bad person.
If people knew of my lack of goodness, I would be rejected instantly.
I will fake goodness if that will get me what I want. I’d rather have ‘feeling good’ than ‘goodness.’
‘The good die young.’ I will take what I want by force. Good people are phony.
I’d rather be bluntly honest and tell people how it is!
GOODNESS IS… Pray and bind/put on all of the following attributes and truths:
Meek: patient and mild; not inclined to anger or resentment
Doing what is right: correct; fitting; appropriate
Being helpful: of service; assist; aid –valuing others
Self-sacrificing: sacrifice of one’s interests, usually for the supposed advantage of others; self-denial
Morally Excellent: conforming to the rules of right conduct (opposed to immoral). Virtuous in sexual matters; chaste
TRUTH AND TRANSFORMATION STATEMENTS
When I do what is good I will receive glory, honor, and peace… Rom. 2:10; 13:3b
Because of God’s goodness to and in me, I can be good to those who mistreat or hate me. Luke 6:27; Matt. 5:44; Ps. 25:4-7; 31:19
I can look out for other people’s interests above my own (Phil. 2:14), and to please others for their good… Rom. 15:2
I am ready for every good deed, to malign no one, to be peaceable, gentle, showing every consideration (true humility) for everyone. Titus 3:1,2
I am able to give a blessing instead of returning evil for evil and seek to do good to all people. 1 Pet. 3:9; 1 Thes. 5:15
After I received Jesus as my Savior (saved from sin and God’s wrath); He began a good work in me, and He will complete it (Phil. 1:6). I am His workmanship created for good works. Eph. 2:10; Phil. 2:12b,13
I know I have goodness when my mouth speaks what is good (Matt. 12:34b,35), which is the fruit of the Spirit and Light in me (Gal. 5:22) along with righteousness and truth (Eph. 5:7-10). I am known by my fruit (Matt. 7:20) and engage in good deeds to meet pressing needs. Titus 3:14
I will not lose heart in doing good, knowing I will be rewarded. When I have opportunity I will be good to all people, especially to those belonging to the family of God. Gal. 6:9,10; Eh. 6:7,8