LOVE Issues

Refer to Chapter 5–Finding Bad Memories and Healing Issues to identify painful memories related to your love issues listed below.

Confess and loose/put off  the statements you identify with, along with all associated memories, unhealthy beliefs, and negative oppressive energies.  It is helpful to keep a prayer journal so you can see how you have been healed.

Jealousy: watchful or solicitous in guarding or keeping: as a man is jealous of his rights

Envy: a feeling of discontent and ill will because of another’s advantage, possessions etc.; resentful dislike of another who has something desirable

Rudeness: to act unbecomingly or discourteous

Bragging: to boast; or arrogant: full of or due to unwarranted pride and self-importance; overbearing; haughty

Self-seeking: insist on your own way

Easily angered; provoked, irritable

Unforgiving: keeping a record of wrongs

Resentful: the feeling of displeasure or indignation at some act, remark, person, etc., regarded as causing injury or insult

Hateful: to have a strong dislike or ill will for; loathe; despise

Delight in evil: morally bad or wrong; wicked; depraved

 Pray:  Lord, I loose the unhealthy belief(s) from my mind and heart that___(i.e. I am unlovable, insignificant, and flawed.)  I bind into my heart and mind that___ (i.e. I am lovable, significant, and healthy), in Jesus’ name.

 PRAY THE ABOVE FORMAT FOR THE REMAINING UNHEALTHY BELIEFS/LIES

Who could possibly love me? I will do anything and everything to get them to love me. (Bind in – God loves me unconditionally.)

What’s the use?  I can’t make them love me.  I can’t love them. (Bind in – I can give preference to them and honor them in love.)

Love leads to loss.  I can’t stand any more pain.  It hurts too much to love.

I am afraid I will be rejected.  I had better hold back my love.

I would do anything for an indication of approval or love.

If they don’t love me, it’s their fault.  They annoy me anyway.  If they know what’s good for them, they will give me what I want.

I don’t need their love.  They should be grateful that I give them my time and attention.  Who needs them?



1 Cor. 13:4-7—LOVE IS Pray and bind/put on all of the following attributes and truths: 

Patient: bearing or enduring pain, trouble, etc. without complaint, losing self-control, making a disturbance, etc. 2. refusing to be provoked or angered, as by an insult; forbearing; tolerant

Kind: sympathetic, friendly, gentle, tender-hearted, generous, etc.

[is humble: modest opinion or estimate of one’s own importance, rank, etc. and meek: humbly patient, as under provocation from others]

Rejoices with the truth; of God and His Word

Bears all things (NAS & ESV): patiently endures;

always protects (NIV): guard; defends the truth

Believes all things (NAS & ESV);

always trusts (NIV): God and His promises

Hopes all things (NAS & ESV);

always hopes (NIV): believes and claims God’s promises

Endures all things (NAS & ESV); always perseveres (NIV): steady persistence in a course of action, a purpose, a state, etc., especially in spite of difficulties, obstacles, or discouragement (does not quit)

TRUTH AND TRANSFORMATION STATEMENTS

Love is being able to let go a wrong, forgive, and not stir up strife. Prov. 10:12; 1 Pet. 4:8

As I stay in love, then I will also abide in God’s love, and He will watch over me. 1 John 4:16; Ps. 145:20

I can love others as I love myself and would want them to love me. Mk. 12:31; Matt. 7:12; Luke 6:31

God is love, and God loves me.  Nothing in the universe can separate me from the love of God. Rom. 8:39

God loved me first, so I am able to love others and myself. 1 Jn. 4:19

As I increase in love for others, being tenderhearted, kind, and forgiving, God will strengthen my heart so I will be blameless and holy. Eph. 4:32; 1 Thes. 3:12,13

I devote myself to loving others, and I am able to give preference to others in honor and serve them.  Rom. 12:10; Gal. 5:13,14; Phil. 2:3-11

The love of God is perfected in me when I obey His Word. 1 Jn 2:5; 1 Pet 1:22

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