The Wise Prioritize Riches

Do you have a goal to build up wealth to live a comfortable life or retire comfortably? But did you ever think about how temporary life is on Earth and how never-ending eternity is? Yet, we are so focused on our temporary physical comfort, that we forget about reality. We need to transform our temporary thinking and remind ourselves that we are eternal beings created to serve God and buildup treasure for our eternal life. As I pray and meditate on this next part of Jesus’s sermon, I see so much I can write, but I will stick with two truths. One, there is heaven and hell. Two, only those who believe Jesus is the son of God and abide in Him will have eternal life (John 3:16; 6:40; 17:3; Rom. 6:23).

Why Must We Be Eternally Minded?

If you are a believer, then you will be eternally minded. Some of us forget and focus on worldly pleasures and idolatry. Colossians 3:1-2 states, “If then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. 2Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth.” Ephesians 2:6 says we have been raised with Christ and are seated in the heavenly places. Praise the Lord! Yet, we forget, so remind someone of this fact. I also want to remind you that we are citizens of heaven right now (Philippians 3:20).

With these truths in mind, let us read our text from Jesus’ first sermon in Matthew 6:19-24.

19“Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal, 20but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal.

21For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.

The gospels record a story where Jesus responds to a rich man who wanted to know how to have eternal life (Matt. 19:16-23, Mark 10:17-25, and Luke 18:18-25). In Luke 18:22, Jesus told him, “One thing you still lack. Sell all that you have and distribute to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow me.” Luke goes on to say in verses 23-24, “But when he heard these things, he became very sad, for he was extremely rich. 24Jesus, seeing that he had become sad, said, ‘How difficult it is for those who have wealth to enter the kingdom of God!’” Having wealth is not bad but good. Realize your wealth is not yours but God’s because He has blessed you and given you the ability to get wealth (Deut. 8:18). So how are you investing His money to increase His kingdom? Read my last post to learn why Jesus wants us to give to the poor.

Pause for a moment and ask yourself, where is my focus? Be honest, do you value your possessions more than God and people? If God asked you to sell your possessions and give the money to the poor, could you? Some people say that money is evil and causes us to turn to evil. Not true unless you love money more than God. The Bible says in 1Timothy 6:10, “For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evils. It is through this craving that some have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves with many pangs.”

How do you know if your heart seeks the pleasures of the world, or desires to please God? Does your heart want others to recognize and value you, or do you want God to get the glory? Do you find your security in what you have in the bank or in your investment portfolio? Wealth can be an idol that you are trusting in instead of God. You can know where your heart is by the things you think about most. 

Are You Spiritual Healthy?

If you can’t understand how to lay up your treasures in heaven, then ask God to open your spiritual eyes to understand this truth. Some people are prideful about what they have, even poor people, which blinds them. You may have a spirit of pride that must be put off to remove the darkness of your heart. You can read more about pride in my post called, How Pride Destroys. Jesus teaches about spiritual health and seeing spiritually in Matthew 6:22-24.

22“The eye is the lamp of the body. So, if your eye is healthy, your whole body will be full of light, 23but if your eye is bad, your whole body will be full of darkness. If then the light in you is darkness, how great is the darkness!

24 “No one can serve two masters, for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and money.

Why does Jesus say that we cannot serve God and money? How do we serve money? Do you allow God to control how you spend your money, or do you spend it on yourself and worldly pleasures? If a person is not submitted to God and does not love God with all their heart, mind, soul, and strength, or love others, they cannot serve God. If a person is wise, then they will prioritize their wealth that pleases God, and they will invest in a heavenly treasure to help grow the kingdom of God. Does this sound right to you? Please comment and let me know your thoughts.

I do not see a biblical issue with setting up a budget and allowing some of your wealth to be used for entertainment, eating out, going on trips, and so on. King Solomon wrote much about the toil of work, and how we are to enjoy the work of our hands. Ecclesiastics 2:24-25 states, “There is nothing better for a person than that he should eat and drink and find enjoyment in his toil. This also, I saw, is from the hand of God, 25for apart from him who can eat or who can have enjoyment?” Also, see Eccl. 3:13; 5:15, 18-19; 8:15.

In summary, serve God, not money. Build up your treasure in heaven, not on earth. Do not focus on getting rich and become spiritually blind.

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Prison Report 8–Faith, Hope, and Love

I need your help with my lesson on faith. We are seeing growth and understanding in the consistent Bible Study participants. Sandy taught last week about God’s love: acceptance, security, identity, and purpose. She emphasized the loving father in the Prodigal Son parable (Luke 15) and his true identity, security, and purpose. Despite the young son squandering his inheritance, the father loved and restored him. Just as the Father put on the robe of identity on him, Jesus puts a robe of righteousness on us, which is our identity. Sandy emphasized that the children in God’s kingdom are righteous because they have the entirety of the Holy Spirit sealed within them.  We just need to renew our minds to let God move us to who He created us to be.

I am teaching this Friday about faith, hope, and love. Faith is a hard topic, so I would like to know your understanding and how to teach faith to these precious women. Please pray for Theresa, Shiana, and Hannah (who does not know the Lord). Yumyum was released to a mental hospital, MJ is still in the hole for her anger; please pray for her; she loves the Lord but struggles with retaliation from the hurt in her past. There is no guarantee that I will teach this lesson this Friday because if new girls attend, we address their issues and where they are in their walk or no walk with God. I may only be able to do half the lesson depending on issues the girls bring up.

Faith, Hope, and Love

We have hope when we trust God keeps His promises, which increases our faith when we believe in biblical truth. By faith, we receive God’s love and show His love to others.

1 Timothy 1:5  states, “The aim [goal] of our charge [instructions] is love from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith.

Ephesians 6:23 states, “Peace be to the brothers, and love with faith, from God the Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.”

Define faith. (Read Hebrews 11:1 “Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.”) We have the assurance of salvation through believing in Jesus Christ as the son of God and the conviction that our sins are forgiven through the death and blood of Jesus Christ. So now we can hope for eternal life with God.

Define hope. Romans 8:24-25 states, “For in this hope we were saved. Now hope that is seen is not hope. For who hopes for what he sees? 25But if we hope for what we do not see, we wait for it with patience.”

Some promises you can hope for are found in Jeremiah 29:11-13, which says, “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope. 12Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will hear you. 13You will seek me and find me, when you seek me with all your heart.” You may not see the good plan God has for you, but when you put your trust in God and seek Him with all your heart, you will see it. Most promises come with a condition. For example, the promise is that God will hear us, but what is the condition?

What are the promises in these three verses?

Hope comes from reading God’s Word and trusting that God will do what He said He would do. Romans 15:4 states, “For whatever was written in former days was written for our instruction, that through endurance and through the encouragement of the Scriptures we might have hope.” We increase in hope when we learn the truths in God’s Word, and read the Bible every day with endurance (persistence), then the Scriptures will encourage us to believe. There will be days you feel you are too busy to read your Bible, but I say with confidence that you will be glad you persist to read your Bible every morning. Joshua 1:8 states, “This Book of the Law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do according to all that is written in it. For then you will make your way prosperous, and then you will have good success.”

(Look at a picture of the grapevine.) Faith is a seed that is only seen when it begins to grow above the soil.

If you put a seed in a pot without soil, will it grow?

Do you see the seed in the soil?

Can you see the roots? Does this mean they do not exist?

Where do we get faith? Read Romans 10:17So faith comes from hearing, and hearing through the word of Christ.

Why do we need to have faith? Read Hebrews 11:6And without faith it is impossible to please him, for whoever would draw near to God must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who seek him.”

What does faith do for us? Read Ephesians 2:8For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God.” 1Peter 1:9Obtaining the outcome of your faith, the salvation of your souls.” Ephesians 6:16In all circumstances take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming darts of the evil one.”

Who is the evil one?

What kind of darts does he fling at us?

What does he hope the darts do in our lives?

Why does faith protect us?


Faith is believing in the existence of God when you do not see Him. And believe God will keep His promises, even when you don’t know how.

When you believe, the seed of faith is planted in your heart. Faith grows as we remain or abide in the Word of God daily, which is the soil that provides nutrients so our faith grows. Also, when you persist in believing the truth that God loves you, it will grow in your heart.

Briefly review Sandy’s lesson on the types of soils (Matt. 13:18-23). Faith won’t grow well in rocky soil or weedy, thorny soil.

The roots of our faith will not get a firm hold in rocky soil. Forgiving past and present hurts removes the rocks that stunt the growth of faith, love, joy, peace, and so on. Jesus instructs us to forgive in Matthew 6:14-15.

Removing worldly distractions, worries (outside our control), and selfish desires from your life will uproot the weeds and thorns, so your faith and God’s love get all the nutrients from God’s Word (soil) of your heart. Ask God to give us His ability to be patient and kind, and so on.

For faith to grow and produce fruit, it needs five elements:

1. Good Soil: Faith is planted in our hearts when we believe Jesus is the Son of God (Eph 3:16-17). Seeds need good soil (no rocks, clay, or weeds) to grow in (Matt. 13:18-23). Next, it needs to be rooted and grounded in love as we forgive those who sin against us (Matt 6:14-15).

2. Water: Faith stays alive when watered by prayer because Jesus is our source of living water (John 4:10).

3. Light: Faith produces a harvest of fruit when it gets the light of Jesus as we live through Him (John 8:12 & Gal.2:20). Because of the light of Jesus in us, we can be a light to others and plant seeds of faith when we witness and tell others about our faith or water someone else’s faith to help their faith grow (Matt. 5:16; John 12:46; and Acts 13:47).

4. Cultivation: Faith grows when cared for by daily reading and obeying the living Word of God (1Peter 1:23 and Hebrews 4:12).

5. Protection: Faith gets stronger when we obey God, go to church, and encourage one another (Jam. 1:19-27 and Heb. 10:23-25). We will die spiritually if we do not remain in the soil of God’s love, receive nourishment from the living Word of God, get living water from Jesus through prayer, and receive; light from Jesus’ life). Why is this true?


If you stay nourished by God’s Word and watered by prayer every day, your faith will grow and produce fruit through the Holy Spirit. John 15:4-5 states, “Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in me. 5I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing.”

If a plant is taken out of the soil, will it grow and thrive? Why not?

If you don’t water a plant, what will happen to it? Why?

If you put the plant in a closet, what will happen then?

What does abide mean?

Galatians 5:22-23 tells us what fruit will grow when we abide in Him through His Word.

Love (1Cor. 13:4-6),
Joy (John 17:13 & 15:11),
Peace (Rom 12:18 & Phil 4:6-7),
Patience (Col 3:12-13 & Eph 4:2),
Kindness (2Tim. 2:24 & Eph 4:32),
Goodness (Rom. 2:10 & 15:2),
Faithfulness-Trust (Ps. 37:3 & Luke 16:10),
Gentleness-Humility (1Tim 6:11 & 1Peter 3:5), and
Self-control (Titus 2:12).


Love and Faith

1Co 16:13-14 states, “Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, …, be strong. 14Let all that you do be done in love.

1Cor. 13:13 states, “So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love.”

1John 4:12-13 states, “No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us. 13By this we know that we abide in him and he in us, because he has given us of his Spirit.” And verses 16 says, “So we have come to know and to believe the love that God has for us. God is love, and whoever abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him.” There is the abiding word again.

Jesus tells us in John 15:10, “If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and abide in his love.” Psalm 119:10-11 says, “With my whole heart I seek you; let me not wander from your commandments! 11I have stored up your word in my heart, that I might not sin against you.”

Define love. (Read 1 Corinthians 13:4-6)

How do you usually react when you don’t get your way?

Are you being selfish or loving?

How can you be loving when you don’t get your way?

How do you think other people feel when you yell at them or hurt them?

Every day, we need to pray and ask God to help us love, be patient, and be kind because we are all naturally self-centered. Abiding in God’s Word every day and putting off unloving thoughts, feelings, and deeds, will help you grow in love.

Please leave a comment on how you would help inmates understand faith.


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The Wise Person Helps the Poor

The goal of my blog is to help you recognize unhealthy beliefs or non-biblical thinking that keeps you from receiving God’s blessing in your life. The last two posts challenged me to evaluate how I think about the poor in my community. One struggling single mother in my church always seemed down on her luck. A woman in my church didn’t feel she deserved her help and didn’t feel compassion for her. I pondered that comment and told her that God would want us to help her.

Jesus said in Matthew 5:7, Blessed are the merciful, for they shall receive mercy.” Mercy is giving something to someone who may not deserve it, or we don’t think deserve it. We do not deserve the kingdom of heaven, yet Jesus said in Matthew 5:3, “Blessed are the poor in spirit [humble], for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.” People interpret this verse in many ways, but God wants everyone to humbly see their need for Him and seek His help and salvation. It is not for us to judge why someone is poor and how they could make better decisions.

I was one of those poor when I was a child because of poor decisions my father made, and when I became a single mother because of my husband’s decision to divorce. It was very humbling to receive help from others, yet I was thankful. I had to wear hand-me-down clothes that were not the latest style, yet I was clothed, and it was okay. My children wore hand-me-down clothes and what I could find at yard sales. The church helped me with grocery gift cards, so thankful. As a single mother, I claimed Philippians 4:19 and trusted God to provide all that I was in need of, and He provided all the finances I needed each month. He did a miracle and provided a mortgage for me to buy a fixer-upper home for me and my children when the only job I had was a small seamstress business. When my kids started elementary school, I became a substitute teacher to help make ends meet. God is good.

In the last post, we learned in Isaiah 58:6-7 that true fasting was having a heart of compassion for the oppressed. Verse 6 says, “Is not this the fast that I choose: to loose the bonds of wickedness, to undo the straps of the yoke, to let the oppressed go free, and to break every yoke?” (Fasting is seeking freedom from the control of sinful actions and thoughts in our lives.) 7”Is it not to share your bread with the hungry and bring the homeless poor into your house; when you see the naked, to cover him, and not to hide yourself from your own flesh?” Many of us have no problem giving food to the hungry or clothing to those in need, but many of us resist the command to “bring the homeless poor into your house.”

Some people say well, the culture was different in 800 BC when Isaiah wrote those words. It may have been safe to bring the homeless into their home, besides, they became servants. You may think, the homeless can receive a housing allowance to help with renting a place to stay. It is true that the homeless poor in 800 BC most likely was NOT violent, addicted to drugs, alcohol, or mentally ill. God knew there would be a homeless problem because some people lack the spiritual, mental, and financial means to care for themselves. The Bible also says we are to be wise and obey God, so pray and ask Him to help you know His will and wisely do His will concerning the homeless. It may not be wise to bring a homeless person into your home. We all have heard horror stories. One man I know is in jail because he had compassion and brought a homeless man into his home, who then molested his daughters and one of them got pregnant. So sad, but a reality.

I find it hard to help those I think could help themselves, who seek others to care for them. God does not differentiate who deserves His help and who does not. We are all poor compared to God, and we all need His help and blessing. As His image bearers, we are to do the same to other poor souls regardless of why they are poor or even if they choose to be poor for whatever reason. We know the government does not lift anyone out of poverty but keeps them in bondage. Only God can lift us out of poverty and provide all we need according to His riches (Phil 4:19).

How should we treat the poor immigrants flooding our country? They are looking for a better life, so how can we help them? And they are ripe to hear and receive the Gospel of Jesus. This is not the time to shun the incoming immigrants. Ask yourself, “What if I was an immigrant or poor, how would I want people to help me?”

James 2:13 states, “For judgment is without mercy to one who has shown no mercy. Mercy triumphs over judgment.” God wants us to show compassion and mercy. This post is my reflection on God’s view of the poor and how we should think. Take your time as you read each passage to understand the heart of God towards the poor.

For there will never cease to be poor in the land. Therefore I command you, ‘You shall open wide your hand to your brother, to the needy and to the poor, in your land.’ –Deuteronomy 15:11

Take care lest there be an unworthy thought in your heart and you say, ‘The seventh year, the year of release is near,’ and your eye look grudgingly on your poor brother, and you give him nothing, and he cry to the LORD against you, and you be guilty of sin. –Deuteronomy 15:9

And when you reap the harvest of your land, you shall not reap your field right up to its edge, nor shall you gather the gleanings after your harvest. You shall leave them for the poor and for the sojourner: I am the LORD your God.” –Leviticus 23:22

Whoever despises his neighbor is a sinner, but blessed is he who is generous to the poor. –Proverbs 14:21

Whoever oppresses a poor man insults his Maker, but he who is generous to the needy honors him. —Proverbs 14:31

Whoever is generous to the poor lends to the LORD, and he will repay him for his deed. –Proverbs 19:17

Whoever closes his ear to the cry of the poor will himself call out and not be answered. -–-Proverbs 21:13 

Whoever has a bountiful eye will be blessed, for he shares his bread with the poor. –Proverbs 22:9

Conclusion

We are to love our neighbor as ourselves. The poor are our neighbors. James 2:8-9 exhorts us, “If you really fulfill the royal law according to the Scripture, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself,” you are doing well. 9But if you show partiality, you are committing sin and are convicted by the law as transgressors.” Also, James 4:17 states, “So whoever knows the right thing to do and fails to do it, for him it is sin.”

You may say, “But the Word of God also says in” 2Thesalonians 3:10-12, “For even when we were with you, we would give you this command: If anyone is not willing to work, let him not eat. 11For we hear that some among you walk in idleness, not busy at work, but busybodies. 12Now such persons we command and encourage in the Lord Jesus Christ to do their work quietly and to earn their own living.” These verses are in the middle of a discourse about people who are idle (2Thes. 3:6-15). Paul set an example for believers concerning the importance of work. Yet, we can still show mercy and encourage such a person to work and even help them find work. Pray and ask God to give you His wisdom and compassion for the poor, only Jesus can lift them up, share Jesus as you show them compassion.

I would love to hear how you help the poor in your area.

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How Wise People Fast

What is fasting and how do wise people fast? How often should we fast? People fast differently and for different reasons. It is popular now to do intermittent fasting to lose weight and improve your health. Some churches do the Daniel fast. Some people do juice fasts. There are many kinds of fasts. The people in the Old Testament fasted when they wanted a message from God (Judges 20:26-27; 2Chronicles 20:3). They also fasted in repentance when they sinned against God (1 Samuel 7:6 and Jonah 3:4-8). Most of the fasting accounts in the Old Testament were out of sorrow and to hear from God. Biblical fasting is humbling yourself before God. This is the fasting Jesus is referring to. Jesus instructs us in Matthew 6:16-18 not to be noticed by others when we fast.

16And when you fast, do not look gloomy like the hypocrites, for they disfigure their faces that their fasting may be seen by others. Truly, I say to you, they have received their reward. 17But when you fast, anoint your head and wash your face, 18that your fasting may not be seen by others but by your Father who is in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you.”

Why do you think Jesus wants us to fast in secret? Do you think it was because the religious people fasted to show a piousness that was not authentic? If biblical fasting is humbly coming before God, then fasting to be noticed is motivated by pride. Since humility is an attribute of a wise person, then a wise person does not display they are fasting.

Jesus is the Word in the flesh, and He knew what Isaiah wrote, and so did the Pharisees. Isaiah defines what true fasting is NOT in Isaiah 58:3-4, he says, “‘Why have we fasted, and you see it not? Why have we humbled ourselves, and you take no knowledge of it?’ Behold, in the day of your fast you seek your own pleasure, and oppress all your workers. 4Behold, you fast only to quarrel and to fight and to hit with a wicked fist. Fasting like yours this day will not make your voice to be heard on high.”

Isaiah 58:6-10 defines true fasting:

6Is not this the fast that I choose: to loose the bonds of wickedness, to undo the straps of the yoke, to let the oppressed go free, and to break every yoke?” (Fasting is seeking freedom from the control of sinful actions in our lives.)

7”Is it not to share your bread with the hungry and bring the homeless poor into your house; when you see the naked, to cover him, and not to hide yourself from your own flesh?” (True fasting is humbly laying your fleshly, selfish desires aside and being compassionate with the poor and meeting their needs.)

8”Then shall your light break forth like the dawn, and your healing shall spring up speedily; your righteousness shall go before you; the glory of the LORD shall be your rear guard.” (When we humble ourselves before God and repent of our sins and put away our fleshly, selfish desires, then God will reward us.)

9”Then you shall call, and the LORD will answer; you shall cry, and he will say, ‘Here I am.’ If you take away the yoke from your midst, the pointing of the finger, and speaking wickedness, 10if you pour yourself out for the hungry and satisfy the desire of the afflicted, then shall your light rise in the darkness and your gloom be as the noonday.” (Does your fasting reflect this kind of fasting? Do you really want to hear from God and have His joy?)

Conclusion

When we fast in repentance and show compassion for the oppressed, then Isaiah 58:11 tells us, “And the LORD will guide you continually and satisfy your desire in scorched places and make your bones strong; and you shall be like a watered garden, like a spring of water, whose waters do not fail.” Do you want God’s continual guidance, healing, and prosperity in your life? Then biblical fasting needs to be done in secret and as described above. This type of fasting is beneficial when you read the short transformation book posted on my website, to seek God to show you areas He wants to transform in your life. 1–Healing Begins by Transforming Painful Memories.

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HOW WISE PEOPLE PRAY

Do you like to be accepted and validated? We all want to be recognized and valued by others. Why? Do you also desire to please your Heavenly Father and get His approval? In the last post, Jesus instructed us to be secretive about what we give and to whom, even your other hand should not know. If you desire recognition from others when you do good, then you will miss the Heavenly Father’s reward. In this post, Jesus instructs us how to pray to receive a reward from our Heavenly Father who sees you and knows what you need before you ask.

1. Pray in secret.

Jesus tells us in Matthew 6:5-6, “And when you pray, you must not be like the hypocrites. For they love to stand and pray in the synagogues and at the street corners, that they may be seen by others. Truly, I say to you, they have received their reward. 6But when you pray, go into your room and shut the door and pray to your Father who is in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you.”

First, what is a hypocrite? According to Dictionary.com (2023), a hypocrite is a person who pretends to have virtues, moral or religious beliefs, principles, etc., that they do not actually possess, especially a person whose actions belie stated beliefs. If we were to apply this definition to the verses above, someone who prays to be noticed does not have a genuine relationship with God. I struggle to pray in front of people because of verse six. I feel that prayer is an intimate talk with God and that when I pray in public, it is superficial and what the group would expect me to pray.

2. Keep prayer simple.

Jesus says the following in Matthew 6:7-8, “And when you pray, do not heap up empty phrases as the Gentiles do, for they think that they will be heard for their many words. 8Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him.”

Do you admire people who pray long flowy prayers with no depth? Or repeat a phrase or several phrases over and over as if God will take notice? Take a moment and think about your prayers. Do you say the same shallow prayer every day? I wrote a prayer booklet with one month of prayers that come from the Bible. The Bible says when we pray according to God’s will, then He hears us (1 John 5:14). We know that God’s Word is His will. Check out these prayers on the page called Who God is — Daily A-C-T-S Prayers. I will send you this prayer booklet if you contact me and ask for it.

These verses remind me of Jesus’s parable about the end result of the tax collector’s prayer of repentance and the Pharisee’s prideful prayer in Luke 18:9-14.

How wonderful that God knows what we need before we ask. Isaiah 65:24 states, “Before they call, I will answer; while they are yet speaking, I will hear.” Not only does God know what we need, but wants to supply our needs according to His abundant riches when we ask (Phil 4:19). And Ephesians 3:20 says that God will “do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us.” I forget this truth and live as a spiritual pauper. How about you?

3. Pray the Lord’s Prayer in Matthew 6:9-12.

Pray then like this: “Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name.

10Your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.

11Give us this day our daily bread, 12and forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors.

13And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Read each phrase and personalize it. So often we say this prayer but don’t give much thought to what the prayer really means. Please read my post on this prayer model called HOW TO PRAY USING THE LORD’S PRAYER AS A MODEL.

4. Humbly forgive those who hurt or offended you.

Jesus explains in Matthew 6:14-15, “For if you forgive others their trespasses [sins against you], your heavenly Father will also forgive you, but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.” I wish more people would take this instruction more seriously than they do. So many Christian people will not forgive but live angry, miserable lives. What is worse is the consequence of our heavenly Father not forgiving us. When we stand before God on the day of judgment and our sins are not forgiven, He will not let us into heaven because He is holy. This reminds me of the parable about the unforgiving servant in Matthew 18:21-35 and what our heavenly Father will do to us.

Please read my post called WHY MUST YOU FORGIVE? In summary:

1. Forgiveness frees you to experience love and joy.

2. Forgiveness protects you from the devil’s devices.

3. Forgiveness heals your mind, emotions, and body.

4. Forgiving is obeying God.

Conclusion

Why do wise people pray? First, wise people are humble and admit they are sinners in need of forgiveness. Second, wise people admit they need God to meet their needs and seek Him. Third, a wise person desires to be righteous and please God by obeying Him. I will end by asking you to read Psalm 34:12-19.

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Wise People Do Not Seek Praise

Do you like to be praised and noticed for the things you do? If we were honest, we like to be appreciated and praised. The root cause is feeling insecure and needing praise to feel accepted and validated. Or, do you know someone who makes sure they let you know how great they are and the good things they do? Do you think they have a self-centered need for people’s approval to feel good about themselves?

Jesus said that a wise person is the one who does what He teaches. In this next lesson, you will learn how to get our approval and reward from our Father in Heaven.

In Matthew 6:1-4, Jesus tells us, “Beware of practicing your righteousness before other people in order to be seen by them, for then you will have no reward from your Father who is in heaven.

2“Thus, when you give to the needy, sound no trumpet before you, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may be praised by others. Truly, I say to you, they have received their reward.

3But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, 4so that your giving may be in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you.”

This passage begins with the word “beware,” which means to be careful or cautious. Why would Jesus begin with the warning to be careful? He knows we struggle with self-centered pride that desires human approval. It is tempting to make sure others notice our good works or right living to feel acceptance from people we admire. Wise people fear God and seek to obey and please Him, not people. Wise people care more about God’s approval than man’s approval.

What are some things we do to practice our righteousness before people? The second verse answers this question. The words “thus, or “so when” are followed by an action. For example, “Thus, when you give to the needy.” It is okay if people see you giving, but when you announce it to receive praise or compare yourself to what others give, that is what Jesus warns us not to do. Jesus said in Matthew 5:16, “In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.”

Why is giving to the needy a work of faith?

James 2:14-18 explains, “What good is it, my brothers, if someone says he has faith but does not have works? Can that faith save him? 15If a brother or sister is poorly clothed and lacking in daily food, 16and one of you says to them, “Go in peace, be warmed and filled,” without giving them the things needed for the body, what good is that? 17So also faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead. 18But someone will say, “You have faith and I have works.” Show me your faith apart from your works, and I will show you my faith by my works.”  Giving to the poor also shows that you are a follower of Jesus Christ. Mark10:21 states, “And Jesus, looking at him, loved him, and said to him, ‘You lack one thing: go, sell all that you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow me.’” Again, Jesus is testing the motivation of the man’s heart, which He already knew. Our reward will be the treasure in heaven.

Examine your motive for giving. If public notice is the motivating factor, then it is your only reward. Our motivation for giving to those in need should be out of love. 1John 3:10 tells us, “By this it is evident who are the children of God, and who are the children of the devil: whoever does not practice righteousness is not of God, nor is the one who does not love his brother.” Loving others is evidence that we love God. 1John 5:2-3 states, “By this we know that we love the children of God, when we love God and obey his commandments. 3For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments. And his commandments are not burdensome.”

Conclusion

God’s reward for the good we do is immeasurable. Luke 6:38 states, “Give, and it will be given to you. Good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your lap. For with the measure you use it will be measured back to you.” Also consider what King Solomon said in Proverbs 19:17, “Whoever is generous to the poor lends to the LORD, and he will repay him for his deed.Proverbs 11:24, “One gives freely, yet grows all the richer; another withholds what he should give, and only suffers want.Proverbs 11:25, “Whoever brings blessing will be enriched, and one who waters will himself be watered.”

I pray God blesses you as you practice righteousness to gain His reward.

Prison Ministry Report 6

It has been a while since I wrote my last report. Many of the Friday meetings were canceled for various reasons and some I could not attend.

We have two consistent attendees coming to our Bible study. Friday I was by myself, and there were four girls. Two of the girls were contentious because of personality conflicts, so please pray for MJ and Yumyum. MJ has been in the hole (isolation) many times for anger mismanagement issues. MJ means well but is getting on Yumyum’s nerves. MJ was in my previous reports if you would like to know more about her.

I felt led to teach a lesson about bondage and how to become free. Many of them are in bondage to drugs and alcohol, and in MJ’s case, she is in bondage to anger from the many hurtful situations in her life. She is getting better, but it will take time. I taught the girls how to take authority over their thoughts using the power of Jesus in them. You can’t control your thoughts with your own willpower or positive thinking. The following outline is what I taught.

BONDAGE TO FREEDOM

Luke 13:10-16 — Disabling spirit (vs.16, Satan bound a woman for eighteen years) (I explained how Satan uses spirits to keep us in bondage, and only Jesus can set us free. She had to go to Jesus for healing, so we need to go to Jesus and seek release from the oppressive spirits controlling us.)

Mark 9:14-29 — Jesus Heals a boy with an unclean spirit – deaf and dumb/mute spirits. (I explained that believing as you pray is necessary to remove unclean spirits and to ask Jesus to help your unbelief (vs. 24).)

Luke 11:24-26 — Unclean spirits coming back with worse spirits. (I explained that once you release an unclean spirit, you need to replace it with the Holy Spirit or a clean spirit. I used several examples, like asking God to remove the spirit of addiction and then replace it with the spirit of self-control and power.)

1 Timothy 4:1 — Deceitful spirit. We talked about finding a Bible-believing church, that not all churches honor the truths in the Bible. I also had them read 1 John 4:1-3, to test the spirits to see if they are from God because many Christian leaders appear to be Christian but are not following the truths in the Bible.

I had them turn to pages 13 and 14 of my Hope for Complete Healing booklet, and we read about how to remove evil spirits tormenting us and how to know if we have one. (You can read this in the section called 2–Removing Blocks to Healing, number 7 of the Seven Prayers That Heal The Heart.) I then took them through the Meekness/Gentleness/Faithfulness section (because Suzette was looking at it), and I explained how to pray to discover the memories and unhealthy beliefs that cause an inferior spirit or superior spirit of bondage. We went through the list of other possible unclean spirits, then I took them through the list of good spirits to replace the unclean spirits. Then we read the scriptural truths at the bottom to replace unhealthy beliefs. We also discussed healthy pride versus self-centered, sinful pride because MJ was confused.

2 Timothy 1:7 — replacing the spirit of fear with the spirit of power, love, and self-control.

John 15:26 and Romans 5:5 — How the Holy Spirit is the spirit of truth and will help us. He pours God’s love into our hearts, but if we have unforgiveness then His love can’t flow out of us.

Romans 8:2, 13; Gal 5:16-17; Eph 3:16-17; 1Cor. 15:45; and Rom. 8:11 — Spirit of life and how Jesus is the life-giving spirit, and how to walk by the spirit and deny the flesh.

Romans 8:15 — Spirit of slavery vs. the spirit of adoption.

1 Corinthians 2:11-12 — Spirit of God in us that helps us to understand the secret things of God.

2 Corinthians 4:13 — Spirit of faith

This study was fascinating to put together, and I could have gone over so much more. Thank you for following my ministry and for praying for me and Sandy and the inmates who come.

Wise People Love Those Who Hate Them

Do you have an enemy or adversary? I personally can’t identify any one person as my opponent. Some people may name their in-laws or maybe a neighbor or co-worker. Dictionary.com (2023) says that an enemy is a person who feels hatred for, fosters harmful designs against, or engages in antagonistic (unfriendly, hostile) activities against another. At this time in history, if you actively oppose the leftist democrat agenda, you will get hostility and hatred. You may even get persecuted if you express your Christian beliefs. Love sets a Christian apart from the rest of the world. So, Jesus’ teaching in today’s post can be applied by everyone.

Jesus Says to Love Your Enemies

Matthew 5:43-45 states, “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ 44But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, (KJV says, But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you) 45so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven. For he makes his sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust.” This part of Jesus’ sermon is very challenging because our sinful flesh cannot love those who hate us. It does not feel natural to bless someone who is cursing us or to pray for those persecuting us. This kind of love is a matter of our will and is not based on feelings. This type of love shows patience, kindness, goodwill, humility, gentleness, forgiveness, and so on towards those who do us harm or want to. This form of love comes from the divine life of Christ in us through the Holy Spirit (Rom. 5:5). So, if God cares for the evil and good, the just and unjust, so can we. Loving your enemies is a matter of submission to God. The devil wants us to submit to him and hate, destroy, and steal (John 10:10). James 4:7 states, “Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.”

How do we love our enemies?

Romans 12:19-20 states, Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” 20To the contrary, “if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.

Dr. Luke also records Jesus’s first sermon in chapter 6. I encourage you to read Dr. Luke’s written account. Let’s meditate on the following passage from this chapter. Luke 6:35-36 states, “But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return, and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, for he is kind to the ungrateful and the evil. 36Be merciful, even as your Father is merciful.” Mercy is not giving what the other person deserves. To be compassionate toward the lost (without a savior) is showing mercy. The people we consider our enemies or those persecuting us do not know Christ as their Lord and Savior and are destined for hell, which is why we need to pray for them and show them mercy.

Jesus continues in Matthew 5:46-47, “For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? 47And if you greet only your brothers, what more are you doing than others? Do not even the Gentiles do the same?” The love described in these verses does not distinguish a righteous Christian from a worldly person. Loving those who love you does not require divine power or grace. Do you find it interesting that we will receive a reward when we love those who persecute or hurt us?

Can we be perfect as our heavenly Father?

Matthew 5:48 states, “You therefore must be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect.” This sounds impossible, but with God’s divine power in us, we can be perfect as we obey Jesus’s teachings. The word “perfect,” in Greek commonly means “finished, complete, pure, holy.” The person who is perfect and holy fears God by turning from evil and doing good. When God purifies our hearts and we forgive those who hurt us, then we can perfectly love our enemies. 2Peter 1:3-4 states, “His divine power has granted to us all things that pertain to life and godliness, through the knowledge of him who called us to his own glory and excellence, 4by which he has granted to us his precious and very great promises, so that through them you may become partakers of the divine nature, having escaped from the corruption that is in the world because of sinful desire.”

Conclusion

Do you find it hard to bless and do good to someone who hates you or hurts you? If you do, ask God to remove the resentment or bitterness created when you were offended by the hurtful things the person has done to you. Next, ask God to heal the painful memories and give you the grace to forgive them. Then, pray for God’s divine power to show Christ-like love and mercy toward them. You know when God heals your emotions and wounded soul when you can be thankful and speak well of the person who hurt you or despitefully used you. To learn more about this, read my online book 1–Healing Begins by Transforming Painful Memories.

May God bless you richly this week.

To learn more about wisdom, read the other posts about wisdom and being a wise person.


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Contact me at hopeforcompletehealing@gmail.com, and ask for a PDF of Eight Life-changing Prayers from the Bible. The prayers are for the Spirit of wisdom, renewal, spiritual strength, knowledge of His will, virtues of God, non-believers, 23rd Psalm, and victory. I will also send you the Lord’s Prayer Model to pray effectively. Please leave your name, so I know you are a real person making the request.

Wise People Give to Beggars and Borrowers

Jesus said that “Everyone then who hears these words of mine and does them will be like a wise man who built his house on the rock” (Matthew 7:24). The next teaching in Jesus’s first sermon is difficult for many people, including myself. I am challenged to evaluate whether I value people as Jesus values them and do I value my possession more than people in need.

Give to the one who begs from you, and do not refuse the one who would borrow from you. –Matthew 5:42

The New American Standard Version and New International Version says, “Give to him [the one] who asks of you, and do not turn away from him [the one] who wants to borrow from you.”  New King James says, “Give to him who asks you, and from him who wants to borrow from you do not turn away.”

In the cities, you often face many panhandlers who beg for money, and we think it is to buy drugs and alcohol but ask them what necessities they need and provide them. God sees all things, and He knows all things. Those who are very rich may have a problem with this teaching. This instruction is especially hard for prideful people who look down on people who are in need as if it is their fault, which it may be. Regardless of why someone needs to ask for help, it is loving your neighbor to help them with their needs. Remember that when you do anything for someone in need, you are doing it unto Jesus (Matthew 25:35-45). And, what you sow, you will reap. In Luke 6:38, Jesus says, “Give, and it will be given to you. Good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your lap. For with the measure you use it will be measured back to you.” Everything that we have is from God, and He is our provider. So giving to someone who asks or wants to borrow is a test of our faith in God’s provision for us.

Is there a limit on how much you can give?

I feel like I should have limits on how much I give, or someone could beg for or borrow all that I have, which would leave me with nothing, then I would have to beg and borrow. Do I trust God to provide? And if you give to one organization, soon you are on a mailing list and get many other organizations asking for money. Is it wise to give to every organization that asks for funds on the radio and TV? Since Jesus dealt with individuals, this verse is about actual people who are in need. For example, my teenage son went on a mission trip, so he asked people to support him. This is a worthy endeavor and people were happy to help him. Unfortunately, there are many scammers that go from church to church asking for money and saying they are in need. God knows, so ask Him what you should do. If He says to give, then it may be a test of your faith.

I am reminded of the story Jesus told in Luke 11:5-8 about the man whose friend came at midnight, and he didn’t have food to give his friend. He knocks on his neighbor’s door to ask for food. The neighbor would not get up, but he kept knocking until the neighbor got up to give him what he asked. You may be the one that God uses to provide for someone who is in need and who prayed for God to help them.

Do you value others and what Jesus values more than yourself?

Is the kingdom of God more important than your wealth? Do you trust God to provide for you when you help others in need? Jesus also instructed people in Luke 12:32-34 the following, “Fear not, little flock, for it is your Father’s good pleasure to give you the kingdom. 33Sell your possessions, and give to the needy. Provide yourselves with moneybags that do not grow old, with a treasure in the heavens that does not fail, where no thief approaches and no moth destroys. 34For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.” Where is your treasure? Is it here on Earth or in Heaven? This scripture passage is a test of our faith and trust. Prayerfully reflect on where your heart is focused. Jesus’ teachings focus on the condition of our hearts. Remember, 1John 2:17 states, “And the world is passing away along with its desires, but whoever does the will of God abides forever.”

Why is it wise to give to the one who begs and not refuse the one who wants to borrow from you? It is the will of God. Doing God’s will reveals the condition of your heart. It is foolish to hold on to your possessions and not care for those in need because then you will not receive the kingdom of God (Luke 12:32). I did not know where God was going to lead me with this post. I am blessed and challenged by what God has revealed. I hope you are challenged to do God’s will and be wise. Storing up our treasure in heaven and receiving the kingdom of God is far more desirable than having possessions, would you not agree?

God bless you.

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Contact me at hopeforcompletehealing@gmail.com, and ask for a PDF of Eight Life-changing Prayers from the Bible. The prayers are for the Spirit of wisdom, renewal, spiritual strength, knowledge of His will, virtues of God, non-believers, 23rd Psalm, and victory. I will also send you the Lord’s Prayer Model to pray effectively. Please leave your name, so I know you are a real person making the request.

Wise People Give Extra

When you give more than is required to give, it makes the other person feel you genuinely care. When someone realizes you care, then they may reciprocate the feeling but don’t expect it. When you give extra, it often softens the heart of the other person. For example, if your boss asks you to work overtime, and you work more hours than asked, this may soften your boss’s heart, and they will remember your generosity. Jesus gives the following guidelines in Matthew 5:40-41.

40And if anyone would sue you and take your tunic, let him have your cloak as well. –Matthew 5:40

We obviously don’t own a tunic and cloak that Jesus references. Albert Barnes writes in his commentary the following. “The Jews wore two principal garments, an interior and an exterior. The interior, here called the ‘coat,’ or the tunic, was made commonly of linen, and encircled the whole body, extending down to the knees. The coat, or tunic, was extended to the neck and had long or short sleeves. Over this was commonly worn an outer garment, here called a ‘cloak,’ or mantle.” In the post called A Wise Person Appeals to Their Accuser, Jesus said to make peace before you get to court with someone who wants to sue you for a wrong. Jesus says in this verse to not only give what they ask, but also give extra.

41And if anyone forces you to go one mile, go with him two miles. –Matthew 5:41

To force someone to go a mile was a well-known event in Jesus’s day. One scenario was if the ruler wanted to deliver a message throughout the kingdom, he would send it by people on horses, boats, ships, etc., much like the pony express of the wild west. For example, King Cyrus stationed horsemen at intervals on all the public highways. These messengers could compel any person whom they might need to help with the quick transmission of the king’s commandments. Another scenario was when someone in authority compels someone to do something for him. In the same respect, the soldiers compelled Simon of Cyrene to carry the cross for Jesus. Luke 23:26 tells us, “And as they led him [Jesus] away, they seized one Simon of Cyrene, who was coming in from the country, and laid on him the cross, to carry it behind Jesus.” So, when someone asks you to do something, go the extra mile, even if you don’t want to.

Jesus is our Example

Jesus is our example of what it means to give extra. Jesus first gave up his royal life in heaven where there was no suffering. He came to earth to experience our suffering. Hebrews 4:15 states, “For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sin.” And Hebrews 2:18 states, “For because he himself has suffered when tempted, he is able to help those who are being tempted.” Then He went the extra mile for us and willingly gave His life for us, so we can have forgiveness for our sins and to reconcile us to His Father. Now we have the hope of eternal life. Giving more than asked and going the extra mile shows humility and submission. Jesus is our example.

So why is giving more than asked wise to do?

Remember that a wise person shows wisdom in meekness and doing good. Have you ever seen a self-centered, prideful person give more than asked? Most often, prideful people don’t give anything at all and often will argue with you if you even ask. Pridefulness creates tension and conflict, which is not wise at all because it creates resentment and resistance. It is wise to give extra because it softens the heart of the one who asks, and it creates peace and harmony. Can you see how softening a person’s heart is wise? The parable of the Good Samaritan is an example of giving extra and going the extra mile. This was an example of how to love your neighbor, which is a command of God.

You can easily do a test of Jesus’ instructions. Next time your spouse asked you to do something, do extra and see what happens. If you don’t want to do extra and resent doing anything your spouse asks, check for a prideful spirit, which is very destructive. Go the extra mile for your spouse, children, or boss, and see how their attitude and your relationships change for the better.

May God bless you as you grow in wisdom.

Joyce

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All verses are from the English Standard Bible. If you find my posts and website helpful, please share this link with your friends and family; hopeforcompletehealing.com. The information is copyright protected. Please do not reproduce any part of the posts or my book without proper citation to Joyce Hanscom and this website.

Check out my latest book Breaking Mental Strongholds which you can order on Amazon. To learn more about it, read my post called Breaking Mental Strongholds Book. Also, check out Fighting Unseen Battles on Amazon. To learn more about this book, read: How to Fight Unseen Battles.

Contact me at hopeforcompletehealing@gmail.com, and ask for a PDF of Eight Life-changing Prayers from the Bible. The prayers are for the Spirit of wisdom, renewal, spiritual strength, knowledge of His will, virtues of God, non-believers, 23rd Psalm, and victory. I will also send you the Lord’s Prayer Model to pray effectively. Please leave your name, so I know you are a real person making the request.